Jake Sr.

Any of you who know me, are aware that my grandfather Jacob Ray Abernathy, Sr., recently passed away.  This is the first time I've lost anyone this close to me, so wrapping my head around this has been quite a process.  However, this particular piece is not about me, my family, or my grandfather.  It's about the community.

Jake Sr. was raised in Catawba, and has lived here his whole life, which stands to reason that he might be semi-well known.  Yet I had absolutely no idea at how quickly our entire family, and seemingly the whole town of Catawba and surrounding communities would come together; to support my family in our time of need, and come to pay their respects to the man I knew as "Papaw." 

So many people showed up immediately to provide comfort, and help with arrangements.  So many worked behind the scenes unnoticed to make sure things went as planned.  So many friends called to offer support, encouragement, sympathy, or a much needed laugh.  Some waited until the proverbial whirlwind slowed down to come forward because of how overwhelming something like this can be.  Each and every one of you are greatly appreciated.  I won't get into names, but each of you know what crucial part you played in our (ongoing) recovery. 

This event was a shock to all of us, and these circumstances are heavy with misfortune.  I wish everyone could experience the community in the way I have observed it recently, preferably without tragedy or loss.  I don't consider myself the type of individual to be easily moved or readily emotional; so I want to take the opportunity I have to thank the town of Catawba, its' residence, emergency services (fire, police, rescue, etc.), everyone who called, came by, pitched in, said a prayer, thought about us, hurt with us, sent messages, flowers, cards, those unable to attend but wished they could... everyone.  You make me proud to be American, from the South, from Catawba County North Carolina, and most especially, Catawba.

Thank you all, for everything.

Jacob Ray Abernathy, III